I have a new-found appreciation for the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). It’s those four letters (e.g., ENFP) often associated with a person’s personality type.
With it comes a surprisingly freaky wealth of knowledge about a person useful in so many different relational contexts.
- Husband/wife (or boyfriend/girlfriend)
- Your understanding of yourself
Here’s a real brief introduction to the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator and what each of the four letter-pairs mean.
As you follow along I encourage you to figure out which letter best describes you in each pairing. Afterward, I link to a couple MBTI tests you can take to confirm your own evaluation.
Once you’ve determined your personality type, do a Google search of your four letters (e.g., ISTJ) and read some of the descriptions. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how much can be gleaned about you from those four letters.
Extrovert (E) or Introvert (I)
Where do you draw the most energy from?
|Extrovert (E)||Introvert (I)|
|Act first, then reflect||Reflect first, then act|
|Breadth of knowledge/influence||Depth of knowledge/influence|
|Recharge with people time||Recharge with alone time
Sensing (S) or Intuition (N)
How do you gather, understand and interpret information?
|Sensing (S)||Intuition (N)|
|Prefer concrete and tangible info||Prefer ideas and theories|
|Trust data and facts||Trust gut-feelings and intuition|
|Hands-on, like details and specifics||Big picture, see future and possibilities|
Thinking (T) or Feeling (F)
How do you approach decision-making?
|Thinking (T)||Feeling (F)|
|Look at reason, logic, facts||Strive for balance, harmony, consensus|
|Detached from people, more objective||Sensitive to people, more empathetic|
|Comfortable with conflict||Uncomfortable with conflict|
Judging (J) or Perceiving (P)
Not going to lie, this one is still confusing to me. While I could explain the theory behind it, I don’t know how to give you the easy-to-understand one-liner.
So just refer to the table. ;)
|Judging (J)||Perceiving (P)|
|Plan beforehand||Plan as-you-go|
|Structured, scheduled, ordered||Flexible, spontaneous, adaptive|
|Have matters settled||Keep decisions open|
Where to Take an Online Personality Test
I would recommend you take both tests. It will help determine which (if any) letter pairings could go either way. For example, if you take one test and you come up ESTJ and the other shows ISTJ, then there’s a strong chance your E/I pairing is fairly balanced.
In that case, look up the description for both and see which fits you more closely.
As extra credit, try to determine the personality types of some of the people close to you. Read their descriptions. Any light bulb moments? Do you see how differences in your personality types have/could cause tension?
So, what’s your personality type (let me know in the comments)!?
I’m an ISTJ.